Enter the Chapter

Life is never easy but it’s a blessed journey that make us learn, enjoy, & grow. When your light bulb comes on, you realized how your life has changed (even if it was unexpectedly) & you know it’s different now, it doesn’t mean to be scared & stay put. We all enter different chapters, some are really long & some are short, sometimes even too short regardless of it’s a wonderful chapter or a sad chapter. Chapters can be a scribbling lines in our lives, regardless if you’re teaching a goal or goals or just even trying to survive. Now we all think (especially me) that our chapters are supposed to go from little pain & sadness here & there & then get better as we get older. Sometimes it does happen that way maybe even for the 1st 12 chapters of our lives & then all of a sudden it gets crazy or disorganized or maybe even a chapter of being lost. Sometimes there is more than one chapter of sadness & in some cases even darkness with no light in sight. It can be about your career, your parents, your siblings, your kids, your spouse or significant other, extended family or maybe even YOU but these chapters happen for a reason. When you know your life has changed for the better then you embrace it & enjoy your precious moments. Even when it’s a sad chapter you still embrace it, why? Because there’s a lesson in the chapter, sometimes maybe something for you to realize & sometimes you can be sad, cry, lost or maybe even angry but don’t let those emotions dictate what you’ll become because emotions are just part of our human nature so don’t let emotions cover who you really are inside. When I became a single mom 8 yrs ago, I learned a lot both good & bad, I experienced many emotions & my life did in fact change back then. Once I realized my “light bulb” came on & that my life changed, I decided to change my mindset, my habits, my motherly teachings & decided to heal not only outside (to stop being sad & angry) but also inside including my mental health not only to be mentally ready to be a single mom but to be better for myself & for my son. So with that, are you getting up? Are you changing? Are you ready? Did you enter that new chapter?